I think I understand some of your anxieties regarding confronting these parties that have done you some wrong. I don't have an answer for that: I think sometimes it is right to fight, sometimes better, mostly for yourself, to walk away and get free. The truth can take care of itself, yeah?
I*'ve got a situation now. I'm seeling my restaurant. The broker that is selling it for me can't tell the truth. It's amazing to watch. Even when the truth seems to be the best angle, his first impulse is to fabricate. Now, I am in a position where I haven't myself presented any bad information. But I know that everything that has been told the prospective buyer is not so. I think I clearly find myself on the side of untruth. But I desperately need for this sale to go through at the price they agreed to. (It is a fair price, I'd say, historically. But one I won't be able to get in three months. And my gut tells me the buyer will eventaully regret the purchase at this price.)
So much interesting stuff in here, Matthew. Wish I had time to really engage it.
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Date: 2007-11-07 04:32 pm (UTC)I*'ve got a situation now. I'm seeling my restaurant. The broker that is selling it for me can't tell the truth. It's amazing to watch. Even when the truth seems to be the best angle, his first impulse is to fabricate. Now, I am in a position where I haven't myself presented any bad information. But I know that everything that has been told the prospective buyer is not so. I think I clearly find myself on the side of untruth. But I desperately need for this sale to go through at the price they agreed to. (It is a fair price, I'd say, historically. But one I won't be able to get in three months. And my gut tells me the buyer will eventaully regret the purchase at this price.)
So much interesting stuff in here, Matthew. Wish I had time to really engage it.
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